One of the most important choices you will make in the process of getting a prenup is whether you will start the process with mediation in order to help you and your future spouse define the terms of the prenuptial agreement together with the help of a neutral facilitator.

Author Laurie Israel

Remarrying? Is a “gray” prenup in your future?

By Laurie Israel, Esq. Divorce rates have been decreasing since rising to record levels in the early 1980s. But divorce rates among Baby Boomer couples – even those in long-term marriages — have been increasing. A Pew Research Center report… Continue Reading →

Should Your Late-in-Life Marriage have a Prenup?

by Laurie Israel, Esq. More older couples are getting divorced in their middle years or even after reaching 65 years of age. A Pew Research study shows that although the overall divorce rates have been declining, the frequency of divorces… Continue Reading →

The Gray Prenup – Should Older Couples Get Prenups?

By Laurie Israel Congratulations! You have found love again after your peaceful (or not-so-peaceful) divorce from spouse #1. You have decided that you want to live together and blend your lives, just like in your first marriage when you were… Continue Reading →

Mediator as Judge

By Laurie Israel When trained as a mediator, the first thing I learned was that mediation is a client-driven process. The ideal is for the mediation clients themselves to figure out the terms that will resolve the disputed issues between… Continue Reading →

How to Mediate a Prenuptial Agreement

Any lawyer who has dealt with prenuptial agreements knows what a stressful and upsetting task it can be for the client. Usually, only one party wants one. The other less-moneyed party does not, and that party is extremely hurt by… Continue Reading →

Bearing Witness in Mediation

by Laurie Israel Recently I’ve been pondering a certain aspect of my experience with mediating divorces. It’s about something that often comes up in my encounters with my mediation clients. What I’m referring to is something I call “bearing witness.”… Continue Reading →

“The Generous Prenup” book available now

Available at Amazon and www.LaurieIsrael.com.  

Driving Your Spouse Crazy, Literally

“The Generous Prenup” Chapter List

Introduction: The Prenup Myth

Chapter 1: Why I Changed My Mind about Prenups

Chapter 2: Who Might Think They Need a Prenup? The Good, the Bad, and the Ugly

Chapter 3: Who Else Might Benefit from a Prenup?

Chapter 4: What Are “Generous” Prenups and the Role of “Contribution” in Marriage?

Chapter 5: How Did Prenups Originate and How Popular Are They?

Chapter 6: How Do People Get a Divorce? Let Me Count the Ways

Chapter 7: What Happens If You Marry without a Prenup?

Chapter 8: Prenups for Wealthy People and for People from Wealthy Families

Chapter 9: Do I Need a Prenup to Protect My Business?

Chapter 10: How a Prenup Can Help with Estate Planning

Chapter 11: The “Gray” Prenup: Should Senior Newlyweds Prenup, Too?

Chapter 12: Are LGBT Prenups Different from Other Types?

Chapter 13: She’s Coming from a Foreign Country to Marry Me. What about Immigrant Spouse Prenups?

Chapter 14: Prenups with Infidelity Clauses and Other “Lifestyle” Provisions

Chapter 15: What’s Alimony Have to Do with It?

Chapter 16: What Are the Drawbacks of Prenups?

Chapter 17: Is There a Way to Make Both Parties Happy?

Chapter 18: Are All Prenups Enforceable?

Chapter 19: The Postnup: A Powerful Tool to Be Handled with Care

Chapter 20: What Are the Ways to Begin the Process?

Chapter 21: Lawyer or Mediator: How Can We Find a Good One?

Epilogue and Acknowledgments

Legal Disclaimer

Table of Cases and Statutes

Index

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